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Bouncing Back: Resilience After Fitness Setbacks

Melissa Sanford

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Speaker 1

Welcome back to another episode of the Tech Exec Wellness Podcast . I'm Mel and I'm Paige . Today we're going to discuss how to come back from a setback , an injury , and stay motivated , because we know life gets in the way , whether you're traveling or Paige . Like you , you're doing conferences . But we want to kind of explore that , because we're now into the third

Catching Up & Entertainment Recommendations

Speaker 1

month of the year . Where's the time going ? I'm not sure . This is wild . It was just January . I just celebrated January 1st , I know .

Speaker 2

And then here we are talking about April coming up . I can't believe it .

Speaker 1

Before we get started , have you any movie series or concerts that we can catch up on ?

Speaker 2

You know , I watched on Roku Swimming with Sharks . Have you seen it ? It is a little insane . It's a little twisted . I didn't know what I was getting myself into . But of course you're six episodes in and you're you can't believe you've just spent that much time watching something . But yeah , that's a good one . I just watched that .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I started a show and I highly recommend it . It's called Paradise .

Speaker 2

I've , I'm watching that , I watched that . I watched that too . Oh my gosh .

Speaker 1

Listeners , we're going to talk about paradise for a minute . If you haven't seen it , I would say check out right now , then come back in a couple of minutes page . Obviously there's spoilers , listeners , but how did you feel about episode seven ? It's not the second to last one , was it right , okay .

Speaker 2

So it was so twisted and I , by the way , I did not like the way it ended , because they leave you hanging .

Speaker 1

Yes .

Speaker 2

I'm at a loss for words right now ,

The Mind-Blowing "Paradise" Show Discussion

Speaker 2

because you know when there's you watch something and it's so good or it's a twist that you didn't expect and it leaves you just thinking later . That's what this series did for me .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I , I've seen you know I'm a TikToker and I've seen so many people talk about how it traumatized them . It was the best episode in television history and for myself , I really couldn't sleep that night because I think , like you , I I couldn't wrap my head around it , right .

Speaker 2

I still okay . I people are going to be like what ? Why can't you get words out ? This is the , but you're going to watch it and you're going to you're also not going to get words out , couldn't , I think ?

Speaker 1

I think I w ? I felt like I was there , especially when he says okay , I need , you know , get the camera back in here , cause he did his generic spiel but he just felt his conscious going . I got to give people a chance , I know , and to me , and then , you know , it's kind of like we knew that that was going to cause chaos whenever he said what he said . And I think for me , what really shocked me was when they were on air . I think it was like a , I don't know like a big station , like CNN or something , and the woman's reporting is she in Brazil , she's , she's somewhere , but she's on a rooftop and that wave .

Speaker 2

Oh my God , the wave and what . And my heart's actually pounding right now . And it's the secretary when he looked , when she looks at him and was like I've been with you this whole time , and the whole time she's wanted to go to get her son , and then she doesn't , and then all breaks loose .

Speaker 1

I mean , Mel , I know it's like we're starting off the podcast , but you know what , though ? What ? It's like we're starting off the podcast , but you know what , though ? What I think it did for me . If I want to spin it positively , it made me cherish every minute that I have , because I think it's so easy for us to be on autopilot , and for me , it made me take a step back , think about my family , my dogs and my life and just say , you know what , I'm grateful , one hundred percent . I know that I've texted you about this before , but any music that you're catching up on , anything you're jamming to in the car , listen .

Speaker 2

I'm a nineties gal . I've been , I've been , and I told you this before , and you said you need to listen to some new music . But hey , I have been listening to nineties on nine straight for probably two or three months and I I've noticed that , at least on my Amazon music , it's the same music in a row every

Staying Motivated When Life Disrupts Fitness

Speaker 2

day . But maybe that's what I just need in the background , so I don't have anything new . What about you ?

Speaker 1

Lady Gaga came out with a new song , Abracadabra , and I saw the performance on SNL . I've always been a Gaga fan . I saw her at Lollapalooza in 2010 . And I got to tell you she really brings it . The whole album is good . I don't know if you like her , but this is a must listen to .

Speaker 2

Do I do so ? Okay , all right , I'm writing it down , yeah .

Speaker 1

I want to hear what you think . As I said at the beginning , you know we're in the third month of the year . It's all flown by . We saw paradise , we got traumatized . You know , everybody starts a new regimen at the beginning of the year . I'm going to eat less carbs , I'm going to work out every day and I think life just kind of grabs you , whether it's work , kids , pets or even if you get sick . I haven't been sick yet . I knocked on wood . I don't know if you heard that .

Speaker 1

But , Paige , has anything ever happened to you whether it be burnout or lack of motivation that just kind of taken you away from your fitness ?

Speaker 2

journey . Yeah , I think all of the above and just different versions of my life . Whether , especially after I had a baby , it wasn't too motivating , it's just like so that version of my life , but now I mean specifically for me . So I recently had a few health issues involving surgery and a hospital stay and then with that recovery time . So here I am kind of in this doctor prescribed stay , not , you know , don't be active , you know , can't lift over 10 pounds , sort of deal . And then now that I'm approved to do all of that , I'm like , well , I don't know where to start .

Speaker 2

You know , of course you have to start small , right , but I can't just go right back into it . So I , when you brought this conversation to me , it's like this is me right now . Well , but so what I've done is I am going to hike the Grand Canyon this fall . And so I do have a goal , and for me , having a goal is what I need to be able to work towards that , and so I will start small and gradually get there . But yeah , I'm living that right now .

Speaker 1

Do you miss being ? Because I know you were doing the 75 hard challenge and that's how I learned about it from you . I mean , do you miss kind of that routine that you had going on ? I do .

Speaker 2

I do . And it's interesting because now I sit back and I've gotten back to the . You know you're working all the time or taking care of just life in general . And you think you're working all the time or taking care of just life in general and you think where where would I fit that in ? But it does fit in you . Just you fit in what you , what you prioritize , right , and so I'll just be moving a few things around . But I do , I miss that routine , and whether it's waking up early to get something in or when everyone goes to bed

Adapting After Health Setbacks & Surgery

Speaker 2

, and it's definitely something I miss .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I , you know . When you were talking about recovery , I mentioned on the first podcast my knee surgery that I had from Dr Mark Bowen , who was the I don't know if he's still the Bears doctor , but the stories I've heard about people with knee surgery is that they have to have them done again and again . You know , maybe the doctor missed something or whatever , but I was lucky to have a full recovery and they had me walk in like literally they were like wake up when I was coming out of anesthesia and you know I was like get up and I'm like what the hell ? But that they got me into physical therapy and I learned a lot of great things about physical therapy .

Speaker 1

And then , of course , I injured my shoulder playing rugby when I was in the military and we were up playing at Yale and I remember going , oh , I really should go to the doctor , like the pain is really bad . But they're like no , just have another beer , get the keg , let's , let's keep it going . You know , these things kind of come back to bite you and I think I always hear a body that is in motion stays in motion , and I know if I've ever taken time off from working out . It's a lot to just get back to where you were .

Speaker 2

It's so true , I that saying is true , it's when you're in motion , but you know , when you're approved to walk around the block one time , like what are you going to do ? Which really brings us to the I mean the importance of rest . Right , and if there is time where it's prescribed or your body just needs rest , then do it but don't take too much time off , because it's hard to get back into that .

Speaker 1

Oh , it is . I remember when we got Sammy we were walking probably and this is crazy for a bulldog right but we were probably walking two to three miles like every day , and it gets really hot down here , like it probably does in your area . There were days where it's like , okay , I'll just go get on the Peloton .

Speaker 2

Well , it's a night and day difference from being out in nature and then getting on a bike and all that stuff . It's so true I , you know I'm going to have to wipe the dust off my Peloton , so I might need to check on her .

Speaker 1

My goodness let's talk about that for a minute . Um , what type of Peloton classes were you doing , and is there a favorite instructor that you have ?

Speaker 2

you know I was doing uh , because I was doing 75 hard . It's 45 minute workouts . So what I would do is I just sort by 45 minutes and take any of the classes I mean I really liked Allie was one of my favorites when I was doing it . I would stay . Stay away from people like Tunde , and only because I she's so hard , maybe I should have taken her classes . She , she'll kick your booty , but I don't know what about you . I know you were . Are you still doing Peloton biking classes ?

Speaker 1

I just filtered abracadabra on the app and there's some new classes . Cody has one , olivia has one . I'm going to take it . But I have to giggle when you say tune day , because you're thinking minutes , no big deal , and it's like you're spinning and then , okay , put it on 75 and that's hard as hell and you know I'm competitive so I'm falling behind and I'm I don't know , but yeah , she's tough . Those 30 minute classes are no joke .

Speaker 2

Yeah , she is . But then you look at her arms and you're like that's how you get that .

Speaker 1

Okay , you know she has an arms challenge and I think I stopped into the second week because I'm like man this is hard , I know , but I mean I'm actually gearing towards with Peloton is just using the app for workouts .

Speaker 2

So , whether they're outdoor walking and running apps , or then they even have series where you can do weightlifting , yoga , I have been experiencing more . While I yes , I do love the bike , I love the app and the variety that you can do , so that's what I've really been leaning on .

Speaker 1

So things to do while recovering . You're probably going to start out with walking first , I would assume .

Speaker 2

Yes , I'm going to be walking . You know what not to do ? I actually . Yesterday I had some family in town and we went to Topgolf and Topgolf is not suggested when recovering from abdominal area surgery . But I know that I'll be walking and I actually got . Have you used a weighted vest before I have one ?

Speaker 1

Okay , what do you think it's again ? It's one of those things where like , ah , I could do this , I was in the military and you're like hell . No , I'm walking you know like a mile and this thing is killing me . What about you ?

Speaker 2

I'm telling you , melissa . So I got , well , I ordered I was going to order a 10 , but I said , oh , no , I can do 15 . So I you know , 15 pound weight , weight vest . And I go a mile in the park and I see this other lady and she's got this massive weighted vest on and I asked her . I said I go oh , I've noticed you're wearing a weighted vest . How many , how much do you do ? And she goes oh , this is 45 pounds . My jaw was on the floor and she goes . Oh , she goes , no , keep at it . I've been doing it for years . You just gradually go up . And I said this is my first time doing this and it's 15 pounds . I think I'm going to have to drop it and come back and get it . She said no , you do that . You can't rush it , you've got to build it up .

Speaker 2

So that that would be my advice to anybody that is going to get into the weighted vest Start , start small , gradually work your way up and then you'll get to my aspiration as the lady who walks in the park 45 pounds .

Speaker 1

You know what that is admirable . I ran with it and I like it because it kind of helps my form to have something heavy on me . But I don't think I could do 15 pounds . I think I'm maybe at five , maybe 10 , but I'm not ready for 15 .

Speaker 2

Well , in hindsight

Building Back: Weighted Vests & Gradual Progress

Speaker 2

and this is another learning here is , I wish I would have gotten one of the vests that you could add weight into . I just got a 15-pound weighted vest , and one of my friends got one that was 8 to 16 pounds , so she's starting at 8 . And then she can add the 2-pound plates in as she gets higher , or can do that much , and so I think that , if you're in the market , finding one that you can add weight to might be a better route than just going for a solid number .

Speaker 1

You know what I will . I'll text you and then , when I post this , I'll post what I have . But I have the camouflage , obviously , and it's the same . It's . You can put the weight in there . It opens up and there's like a steel weight and that's adjustable Like you can , you know , add weight to it .

Speaker 2

Okay , All right . Well , you're already . You're already on it , which is great .

Speaker 1

I know , when you start 75 hard again or even anything , do you , are you motivated enough to do it on your own , or do you need an accountability partner ? How does that work for you ?

Speaker 2

So I am motivated to do it on my own just because I I have that goal in the fall . You know , if you show up to the Grand Canyon and you're not ready , you're either going to experience injury or you can't be . Once you're in the bottom of the Grand Canyon , there's only one way out . You're walking yourself out and I'm not going by the red copter , you know , and so that that is motivating for me , but it's certainly I've got a solid group of actually neighborhood friends that we go to the gym together , which I think is great , because then the kids go to the little daycare part and so even they're part of it .

Speaker 2

So I do like that as getting them involved in some of the activities that we're doing .

Speaker 1

What about you ? The same thing . And here's the other thing too . I don't drink anymore . I just got rid of it because one my body just can't tolerate it and I need what brain cells I have left For me . It was interesting for me to find people that were kind of on the same wavelength , right as far as fitness , yeah , I , and I do miss CrossFit , because that's a community into itself .

Speaker 2

Absolutely . I feel like with CrossFit you get a lot of accountability there .

Speaker 1

Oh yeah .

Speaker 2

Yeah , right , and that's part of it is . Well , you know , I actually end up being the accountability for I had when I was down . There's , there's three of us that go in our neighborhood and the two would kind of always cancel each other . But when I'm there they're like oh , we can't cancel pages here . Well , and I said , you get the cancels out of your system because we're not doing that when we're back at it .

Speaker 1

Goodness .

Speaker 2

Goodness , I know . I was just going to ask you have you ever had to give up any sort of sport or routine ? I know you mentioned the surgery , but have you ever had to give up something ?

Speaker 1

You know , after the knee injury I was really hesitant to play soccer again , so I gave that up . I was really hesitant to play soccer again , so I gave that up . Obviously , I gave up rugby because right now I'd get crushed . So I had to give up team sports , even doing something like flag football , because you're pivoting and that's actually how I tore my meniscus . So , yeah , unfortunately I can't do any of those cool sports anymore .

Speaker 2

Yeah , Well , I gave up skiing . I never started skiing , but I gave it up . I decided no , I don't know why , I'm just I don't . I feel like maybe it's because I'm so tall , I don't , I don't know , I'm just . That's like my excuse , but I just envisioned myself just just rolling down the uh , the hill . So I decided that I might be a lodge bunny . I'll stay in the lodge and I'll support anybody who wants to go skiing from the lot .

Speaker 1

Have you ever tried ?

Speaker 2

snowboarding have you ever tried that ? One time , but it's been such a long time I should probably try it again . But bunny hills stick to bunny hills , it's it's harder than it looks .

Speaker 1

Cause you're thinking ? Oh , cause I used to skateboard when I was a kid .

Speaker 2

I'm like oh , this will be easy . It's not . You know , I asked for a skateboard one time grown adult asked for a skateboard and I got on it one time , fell pretty hard and I said , really I'm good , got the pink wheels and all , but I just I am like so brave in some things , but it's such a scaredy cat and others when it comes to hurting myself .

Speaker 1

Oh , my goodness , Now I had a skateboard and I used to fly down the streets and everything , and my mom's like you better watch out , you better put something on your head , and back then you know it's like whatever you know just get hurt , rub some dirt on it , right ?

Speaker 1

Oh , my goodness , you're so brave . And then I don't know if you were into this you talk about nineties . I remember back in the nineties I was rollerblading . You ever do that . I did carefully , but yes , I did . Yeah , those are the . Those are the good old days and stuff , I swear . What are your fitness goals for 2025 ? I know you talk about the Grand Canyon .

Speaker 2

Anything else . Yeah , I just want to get back into it actually

Finding Community & Accountability Partners

Speaker 2

and so developing the routine . So I'm going to , probably sometime this summer , go hopefully to another large park in the U ? S I haven't decided where , but do some hiking there to get nice outside the green . I mean , living in Arizona , the Grand Canyon is the one that's the closest right and it's a wonder of the world , but experiencing another place to hike would be good . So I'm still trying to decide that doing that the summer , so that would be a goal .

Speaker 1

That's nice .

Speaker 2

Combined with a fitness goal . So what about you ?

Speaker 1

You know , I don't , I don't know , and I and the reason I pause on that is because I think I was hoping that I'd be a lot further along in my fitness goal than I am finding myself getting a little winded when I'm running and I don't know if it's allergy related . But I was kind of hoping to do like a half marathon this fall . But where I'm at right now I don't see that I could accomplish that .

Speaker 1

Yeah , a half marathon , that would be good , you know , maybe start with a 5k , 10k . Yeah , I know . Have you ever done a marathon ? You know what I did back in 1992 , the Marine Corps marathon in DC . But you know what ? I was running all the time because I was in the military and I was like this is nothing . You know , you do three and a half hours and you know whatever . But now , looking back , there's no way in hell I could do that .

Speaker 2

I admire the people and I know there's people that have been on the show to talk about their marathons and other screening type events and it's impressive . It's definitely impressive .

Speaker 1

I don't know .

Speaker 2

It kind of just also in just kind of this whole conversation , just the importance of rest and nutrition , with all of that . And I know just being out of sync with working out the period of time that I'm in it's nutrition and also I haven't been the best at that either . So it's almost like when you're working out or have a routine , you are thinking about that more than you are when you're not being as active , when you're not as active .

Speaker 1

Has anything changed for you then ? So , when we're talking about nutrition , have you made adjustments because you haven't been working out ?

Speaker 2

Well , I should more than I have , but I still try to actually notice that I needed to . You know , I would probably eat more salads when I'm working out and then , since recovering , I've been not eating said salad . So I'm starting to . I mean , when I go get groceries I don't buy maybe the two comfort , two or three comfort things that I have been these past couple months , and so that's the first step is not having it in the house and just going from there .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I like you know what my weakness is . Sometimes I'll get chocolate , but I like soft pretzels .

Speaker 2

Oh , my goodness , I hear you . That's another thing in why 75 hard work for me is because you don't have to fight . It's not a certain diet , it's just you have to . You have to stick to something , and those you know , like a soft pretzel with cheese , absolutely . But you know a handful of Skittles or a handful of chips . You just wouldn't do that in that routine .

Speaker 2

You get out of routine of just picking up a handful of this or that , and so that is something that because I do have self-discipline when I'm sticking to something , so that's why it works for me . I think you're talking to me into doing 75 hard again , so thanks , thanks for that .

Speaker 1

I was going to say when you start it , let me know and I'll start it too , Pretty Selby just finished hers and she lives

Nutrition Challenges & Sleep Difficulties

Speaker 1

in a climate where it's snowy , it's cold and you know you got to do that cold shower and you know you have to do the outside exercise . I really give it to people that live in such extreme climate whether it's snow or whether it's heat because you got to stay consistent , I mean think about it , get 20 days in , you've done all that work and it's snow , or whether it's heat because you got to stay consistent , I mean think about it , get 20 days in , you've done all that work and it's so hot outside you got to make it work right , exactly , exactly .

Speaker 2

But hey , there's a will , there's a way you'll do it . So there you go .

Speaker 1

What about ?

Speaker 2

sleep . I've not been sleeping that well these days . How are you doing with sleep right now ? I'm not sleeping the best either , I think from just life and work and also just probably not being as tired from working out same .

Speaker 2

I wish there was a switch . I think everybody's searching for that switch . You can just turn it off , go to sleep , get the appropriate number of hours and then go for it . But what about you ? I mean something going on . You resist like kind of do you go ups and downs , I think it's ups and downs and I'm with you a hundred percent .

Speaker 1

When you work out , you're exhausted . If I go do a 45 minute Peloton ride today and I really just go all out , I know I'll sleep well . But if I'm not working out I've been sitting on Zoom calls or whatever then of course I'm going to be wired and I'm not going to get to bed . And then I'll go on YouTube and I'll watch a podcast or something movies , stuff like that . I like a lot of pop culture and I find myself I wouldn't say doom scrolling but it's like , hey , you need to get to bed here . It's like one o'clock in the morning . I've been guilty of that and I'm even embarrassed to share that .

Speaker 2

You know , same , though , and I , okay , I noticed this about myself last fall and so I removed well , I removed TikTok off my phone , okay . And then then I then it was fine for a few months . Then I started doom scrolling Instagram . I removed that from my phone last fall , and so I and I wouldn't . I wouldn't scroll on Facebook , because our algorithm just wasn't matching with what I enjoyed anyway .

Speaker 2

Well , guess what the algorithm caught up to me , and now I've noticed myself doom scrolling on Facebook as well , and so this is a whole nother topic . You know , I do a lot of cyber safety education , but like , how are we expect kids to regulate themselves from being online when me , as an adult , a grown adult , can't even regulate myself from doom-strolling ? Yeah , that's a good point .

Speaker 1

Just mind-boggling . I got rid of Facebook , so two years ago I got rid of it and I think for me and Erica and I

The Social Media Time Trap

Speaker 1

talked about this before . But people can go on there and show you everything that's going right in their lives . They're never going to go on there and say , well , you know , this happened to me , that happened to me . I mean , you get some people who do right , but I felt like I was giving those people my energy and I kind of felt like the likes that I would have for whatever were kind of like an endorphin rush and I was like , wait a minute , this isn't healthy . So I got rid of it . I miss a lot of people that I used to talk to , but I know that it wasn't making me feel good anymore . I got rid of it , good for you .

Speaker 2

I mean , you have to right so that might be next on my list . I just sell a couple of things on Facebook marketplace so it kind of forces you to have then the app .

Speaker 1

So maybe I need it harder to access .

Speaker 2

put it in a folder , in a folder , in a folder , so I can't just easily access it .

Speaker 1

No , you bring up a good point . Well , probably have to . You know , have you have an episode on that ? But I think it's the whole cyber safety and you never know who the kids are talking to online . But that's another subject , right . I just know that I would get messages from people I didn't know on Instagram and I was like I'm not putting my face on there anymore , like I feel it was invading my privacy . I just cut the cord . Good for you , yeah , good for you . Oh man , tiktok . No , though I'm still . I still like TikTok . It catches me up on things and you know I love the recipes . I don't know if you remember that , but they'll show the recipes , like how to make stuff , and one of the things that I love to make now is a vodka sauce on bread with provolone cheese , tomato basil . I get recipe ideas from TikTok .

Speaker 2

Okay , I see , and this is where that sounds delicious , by the way , but there is , the way that I make chicken at my house now is because of TikTok and the you know the few of the little self care tip type things is all from TikTok , so it's just there's that . So how do you weigh ?

Speaker 1

okay , I'm going to spend a lot of time on here , but I do learn a few things I think you know it takes discipline and one of the things I like about my phone is that I can set up , you know , time limits and whatnot . I'm really utilizing that . I really like the recipes like especially in the summer . They've got these green type sandwiches where okay , I'm going to make you hungry Avocados , tomato , romaine , lettuce , caprese , like type sandwiches , and I've really expanded my horizons as it comes to food .

Speaker 2

I believe it . I mean , you try a couple of things , you can say , oh wow , that's really good .

Speaker 1

Okay , Are you ? Are you doing any meditation or anything like that ? Have you incorporated that into your daily regimen page ?

Speaker 2

I have not , and I know you're so much better at you . I aspire to be you , melissa . No , no , every time I hear you , you know , talk about it , or we talk offline about it . It's just , it's something I want to get into , but what about you ? You still at it .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I'm still at it . I've been listening to subliminals at night , which I think helped because I did an episode on my own on training your subconscious , so I listened to those at night . But Peloton has some amazing meditation practices and they're not that long . The misconception I've heard from people is oh , you know what ? I don't want to be sitting in a room for like an hour and it's dark .

Speaker 2

I don't either , but it's true . Okay , I mean knowing that you can . So you can break it up . You know , five , 10 , 20 or an hour . Five , 10 , 20 , an hour , but that's more manageable if you want to gradually get into it or if you're trying to sneak in a little bit before you know you have something else going on . Absolutely .

Speaker 1

I think it's a great stress reliever , and I even see that they're teaching this to kids in school . I think that's really amazing .

Speaker 2

It is . I didn't know that Okay .

Speaker 1

I am so glad that we had a chance to connect . I mean , I could we've said this before . We could probably talk for hours .

Speaker 2

It is so ? True , yes , it is , but no , I am really glad to have this conversation because I'm guessing there's a lot of people in similar boats that we've expressed . You know , for me personally just being out of it and need that just motivation to just get back to it , and conversations like this certainly help get me there . So I appreciate the platform and opportunity to just talk about it .

Speaker 1

No , I appreciate that and I think you said the most important thing , which is rest . That's what we're going to do .

Speaker 2

All right , Well , thank you so much , Mel , and to everybody . Please remember to subscribe to our podcast on various platforms , including Apple , Spotify , iHeartRadio and many more . Thanks for tuning in and take care .